Wednesday, November 18, 2009

How To Romance A Man

By Sarah Nichols

Is your boyfriend tired of you? Does he feel that there is no more spark between you two? This questions are dangerous and you should find out the answers. If he is getting weary of you, he might want to bring the relationship to a close.

In a world so full of hate, we need all the love we can get. And although a couple breaking up might not seem that much, but imagine what it would do to both parties. Ergo, a woman should know how to romance a man so that it will solidify their relationship.

1) Get a makeover

Any men, no matter how much they try to deny it, are always captivated by beautiful women. It's engrained on their minds that they should gape at pretty ladies. Use this flaw in the male genetic makeup to your advantage.

You don't need to go for the expensive celebrity look to lock your man down. You just need to look pleasing in your boyfriend's eyes. Get your hair done, get fit, find a new wardrobe and give your boyfriend a chance to gape at you instead.

2) Sacrifice

There is a lot of give and take in a relationship. You have to get a good look at yourself and ask what you have contributed in keeping the both of you together. You have to be fair and analyze your flaws and mistakes that might have angered your boyfriend at one point or another.

If the mistakes you done have affected him negatively, directly or indirectly, you should apologize. Make it up to him by doing something he'll enjoy, even if you won't. That's the 'give' part of the give and take in a relationship. And if you really showed that you care for him until you are willing to sacrifice your needs, he will certainly hesitate to leave you.

3) A grand gesture

In this modern age, women and men are becoming equals, with women taking over the men's world. Conversely, the men are also filling out the parts vacated by women, especially emotionally. I think it is safe to say men are as sensitive as women nowadays.

If you want to know how to romance a man, you have to know what he wants most in life. Dig a bit into his history and find something that is really dear to his heart. Use that to romance him. For example, if he always wanted to go on a helicopter ride, get him on a helicopter. If he always dreamed of piloting a boat, I say you give him that boat.

Men are not so hard to seduce and romance. Women who know how to romance a guy have kept their relationships alive by keeping both parties happy. Follow the tips above to show your boyfriend why he shouldn't leave you.

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